09/17/2006

How to say No when you want to say Eff off, Long Island Iced Tea sans coca cola, clear blue skies and Kishore on a loop

medium_man_on_a_hill.2.jpg Interesting weekend.

Background: Some time back, I did work for a friend in the US for which I was supposed to be paid X dollars. Post 3 weeks of 20 hour days and loss of sleep only because I could see my bank balance going up in one single move, I was informed that I would be paid somewhere to the amount of X/3 because the finished product didn't meet their requirement. Sixpence none the richer, haha, but smarter about the ways of the world. I let my ego speak and said I wouldn't accept it, to which I was given the reply: "We've thought it over and decided we'll round it off to amount Y (which was marginally better than X/3). We think you should take it. Translated into Indian currency, it is a sizable amount." Hmm. Ignore, ignore. Mailed the said party yesterday in very polite terms that thanks for the very considerate increase in remuneration, but no thanks. Never did accept pity or charity graciously. Maybe they could use the money for office petty cash. Don't know the yankee equivalent of that term, don't care. So, please refrain from telling me what it is. If you do, take it and shove it you-know-where.

She became my friend through another friend eleven years ago. Arian, smart, funny, small in stature, but a tough cookie. She married her first boss. Arian. Plump, with a ready smile, warm, and yes, funny. Arian+Arian = Frequent squabbles at home over trivial things. Last week was no different. Cold shoulder treatment Monday thru Wednesday, make-out session on Thursday. Just before the, erm, most vital part, she tells him - "We need to talk." To which he responds - "Yes, we do." To which she says - "Okay, we can continue." Gotta love that beeyatch. Of course, he did request her later to NEVER, EVER do that again, that it could make or break the, erm, situation. Asked her to go swipe-happy with his card over the weekend. Naturally, I was the shopping partner. We three went for dinner and drinks at night. His treat, as is the usual case. He's got a US visa stamp on his passport. Have told him to bring me back Bath & Body Works country apple body spray when he goes. Have a yen for fruity perfumes. Have vanilla, two or three citrus ones, melon, mango, something called Hawaiian Ginger which is more banana than ginger, but no apple. She did ask me to mention her name, wanted to be famous, but I won't. Can't have someone else stealing the thunder from right under my nose now, can I?

Had my first Long Island Iced Tea, but substituted the cola with lychee juice. Gave up soda four years ago, and now am pestrified of them. Got pleasantly inebriated and yes, babbled. But since it was them two and both are teetotallers, I was allowed those slip-ups.  Had some very delicious Pasta Alfredo, flavoured just perfectly at this lounge bar called Casa del Sol. The chef made it a bit spicy and less cheesy. Made to order just for me. They don't have a site, or would have linked them. Would've been only too happy to. Belong to the Casa Piccola group. Excellent service, good music, relaxed ambience, and the food? Yummmmm. Heavenly. Orgasmic. Was so happy with the pasta that I turned down dessert. Me! Ha! 

It's Sunday evening and I had my customary cup of ginger tea outside in the sitout. But for once, didn't count the number of black cars on the street below. Looked straight up and ahead at the blue skies and the canopy of trees, and just for a moment, pretended I wasn't here. Was nice. Listening to Kishore on a loop now. My Sunday fix. 

Aa chalke tujhe main leke chaloon

Ek aise gagan ke tale

Jahaan gam bhi na ho aansoo bhi na ho

Bas pyar hi pyar pale

Ek aise gagan ke tale...

Pay close attention to the opening flute piece of the song the next time you listen to it. Hear the birds chirping? Background music makes life that much more easier to take, doesn't it?

Happy week ahead, everyone! 

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:)
hugs n kisses to you too.

the phrase 'pleasantly inebriated' is nice. i like.

Posted by: Prats | 09/17/2006

so much food talking is driving me nuts!!
and good on you for telling phaks offs to amrikan chuts.. btu still... money is money yeah... aur ek baar poocha toh naa mat bolna :P

okie that was a BAD gossipy post.. I didnt get the juicy bits at all. time to train you on a bit of REAL gossiping from ze master!!! :D..

Posted by: andy | 09/19/2006

aaargggh where my comment!! ^&%)&*%)... grrrr.. okieee i get the gossip :P:P... tubelight.. :P:P

Posted by: andy | 09/19/2006

babe!! u said no to dessert!!!!!! anyway gud to kno ur "phuck off" still remains like that only:)

Posted by: olive | 09/19/2006

babes, arian + arian = sure shot hell.. :), who knows it better than us :p

BTW how many blogs will u change?

Posted by: Twilight Fairy | 09/19/2006

Pssst. Vot a beauty blog. I hope the foreign entities got the meaning of "petty cash"? Otherwise, if you permit, I can send them a vundrrreful example in the form of my salary slip. Moooaaahhaaahha.
Kishore da weekend, eh? Very good. I did Michael Buble. [Gasp! Really? You did?] Yes, I did. He is very hot. He "gives me fever" and cetera.

Posted by: longblackveil | 09/20/2006

Prats~ Copyrighted hain!

Andy~ Tubelight you are!

Olly~ Some things never change :-).

Fairy~ Last one. For a long time. Hopefully :P.

Beaut~ Haha!! Yuss, would be a good idea, actually. Michael Buble? You like him, eh? Good choice! You have me blessings!!

Posted by: driftwood | 09/24/2006

hmm. Magnolia from B&B works.
hmm2. KK singing ek pyar ka nagma hai.

aries NICE me gal. awesome voices. mellow and a hint of something something.

Posted by: austere | 09/25/2006

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